The other day. I was on the train with my mum......& my mum asked me if I know what she dislikes most??? She said it's guys helping their girlfriends carry their bags......

I felt the same as my mum......I can't stand seeing guys carrying their girlfriends' bags.......It makes them look so sissy.......esp if the girl's bag is those girly type.......Why must the guys help their girlfriends carry their bags.......& why must the girls let their guys do so??? If the guys wants to pamper their girlfriends......there're many ways to do so.......not ncessarily have to carry the girls' bags right???

If it is me, I would not want my boyfriend to carry my bag for me......I mean it's not as if I can't carry it myself.......cuz even though I not a tough gal......but I'm not exactly weak also......and carrying a bag is something I can still do it myself......

So......if I've a boyfriend next time.......& he offers to carry my bag for me.......I would sweetly tell him: "Thanx, but it's ok......I can carry it myself"
But if he insists on helping me.......I would tell him to BACK OFF......(Oops....that sounds harsh.....ok maybe I won't do that.......but I'm definitely not going to hand over my bag to him any time soon.....)